The Hidden Truth on Instagram: "Men are constantly told that women “play hard to get.” This is a fundamental misunderstanding. The convoluted games, the last-minute cancellations, the “I have a boyfriend” excuses, or the classic “you can follow me on Instagram” are not mysterious tests of persistence. They are soft rejections. A woman who is genuinely, primally attracted to you will remove obstacles. She will not invent new ones. She will make herself available and ensure you get her number. The